Have you ever found yourself replaying conversations, wondering what went wrong, only to be met with silence? In today’s world of constant connection, it can feel especially confusing when someone suddenly disappears without explanation. This experience, often referred to as “ghosting,” can leave us searching for answers that never come. Ghosting is more than just... Continue Reading →
Gone is the old adage that children need to be seen and not heard. Children need to be heard just as much as adults do. When a child has gone through something that they just don’t have the words for, sometimes a great way to help is the use of children’s books. This is a... Continue Reading →
In recent years, loving-kindness meditation has become an increasingly popular mindfulness practice. Rooted in ancient Buddhist tradition and now widely used in modern therapeutic settings, it offers a structured way to cultivate warmth, care, and goodwill toward ourselves and others. Research continues to explore its potential for improving emotional well-being and reducing mental health symptoms,... Continue Reading →
Many of the daily choices we make, about health, relationships, and goals, for example, are influenced by something we rarely notice, psychological distance. This concept refers to the mental space we perceive between ourselves and a person, event, or idea. Even if something is physically close, it may still feel distant in our minds depending... Continue Reading →
In the first part of this blog series, we explored how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected and how patterns like negative thinking and schemas can shape our experiences. But awareness alone isn’t enough to create lasting change. In this second blog we’ll survey the practical tools that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) provides to help... Continue Reading →
Part One: Foundations Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely used and practical approaches in mental health care today. At its core, CBT helps people understand how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are deeply connected and how changing one can influence the others. This two-part series will break down the key ideas... Continue Reading →
Spring and Summer breaks often gives us something we don’t realize we’ve been missing: a pause long enough to notice how tired we really are. I was on Spring Break this week and during that time I didn’t spend much time working on school work. I gave my brain “time off” and although I felt... Continue Reading →
The day to celebrate mothers is coming up soon. Mother’s Day is a wonderful holiday to show appreciation to all moms for the hard work they do all year. So this is your PSA to start thinking about what you want to buy your mom to show your love. Most moms have something innate called... Continue Reading →
As we transition into spring and the weather begins to warm up, nature slowly comes back to life. Birds start to sing again, flowers begin to bloom, and new leaves appear on trees that were bare all winter. After months of cool and gray skies, these small changes can feel refreshing and full of life.... Continue Reading →
CounselingMatters.live 