Communication is at the heart of all relationships, whether personal or professional. However, not all communication is effective. Often, we unintentionally create conflict or misunderstandings by blaming or criticizing others, which can trigger defensiveness. One powerful technique to communicate more constructively is using “I statements.” What are “I Statements”? “I statements” are a way of... Continue Reading →
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, we often forget to pause and process the overwhelming emotions and thoughts that build up. This is where grounding techniques can be incredibly helpful for our overall well-being. By taking a moment to reconnect with the present, we can step away from anxious thoughts and regain sense... Continue Reading →
The teenage years can be filled with confusion, big emotions, and the struggle to understand oneself. Teens often find it difficult to navigate these overwhelming feelings and may not always open up to their parents. This can be frustrating and confusing for families. However, therapy can provide teens with the opportunity to explore their emotions... Continue Reading →
I was recently invited to watch a video for professional helpers presented by David Kessler, renowned grief expert and author of 7 books about the grief experience. In the video, Kessler discussed the nature of grief from the perspective of the grieving person, including some of the common difficulties the grieving face. He also explained... Continue Reading →
Life today can feel overwhelming. Sometimes we feel irritated, frustrated, disappointed, angry, anxious, depressed, discouraged, lonely, or powerless. For many, it feels like the world is on fire! Writer and creative coach, Amie McNee’s TEDx talk, The case for making art when the world is on fire, is a powerful reminder that “making art isn’t... Continue Reading →
As we transition into fall, it is the perfect season to slow down and savor life’s little pleasures. Sip a warm cup of tea or pumpkin-spiced coffee while wrapped in a cozy blanket, delight in season treats like maple butter or baked apples, and step outside to take in the beauty of autumn, notice the... Continue Reading →
Have you ever felt drained after a conversation, pressured into saying “yes” when you wanted to say “no,” or resentful because someone crossed a line? Then you might want to take a look at your boundaries. Boundaries are the guidelines that protect your well-being while helping you build healthier, more balanced connections. In this two-part... Continue Reading →
Habit Six: Synergize: This habit is all about creating something better together than we ever could alone. It emphasizes combining strengths, communicating effectively, and valuing differences. Synergy invites us to embrace our differences and use them as a source of strength rather than allowing them to separate us. At the heart of synergyis creativity. Creativity... Continue Reading →
When we think of therapy, we often imagine quiet offices and serious conversations. But for children, especially those too young to express themselves fully in words, therapy often looks quite different. Play therapy researcher and author Garry Landreth explains, “In the play therapy experience, toys are like the child’s words, and play is the child’s... Continue Reading →
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