If you suspect you are in or find yourself in an abusive domestic relationship, you are encouraged to document instances of this abuse. Documenting instances of abuse will provide proof of this abuse should you ever need it in the future for legal reasons. Documenting is also a useful tool that helps you process the... Continue Reading →
Grief can be defined as the emotional suffering that occurs naturally in response to loss. Emotions that are associated with grief include sadness, anger, shock, guilt, disbelief, shame, and regret, amongst others. The experience of grief may also cause physical symptoms such as difficulty eating, trouble sleeping, nightmares, and inability to think clearly. Unfortunately, the... Continue Reading →
Parenting is a complex and challenging journey that often comes with its fair share of disagreements and conflicts. One common characteristic among parents is the belief that they are always right. While this attitude may seem frustrating or even irrational at times, it is essential to understand the underlying reasons behind this mindset. In... Continue Reading →
In January of 2023, I began the application process for a counseling internship. Literally, every single one of my professors told me to start the process as early as possible. My anxiety kicked in. I had left my nearly decade long career to pursue counseling. I had spent the past year and a half learning... Continue Reading →
As an individual, there may come a time when someone close to you discloses that they have experienced the traumatic and deeply personal ordeal of sexual assault. It is a heavy burden for both the survivor and those who care about them. Finding the right words and actions to support your friend can be challenging... Continue Reading →
As counselors and counselors in training, we often discuss difficult subjects with our clients and support our clients through the experience of the emotions that are connected to these subjects throughout the session. As the session comes to an end, it is part of our goal as counselors to end the session on a positive,... Continue Reading →
If you are a counselor in training, it is likely you will soon have to or already have had to, with permission, record sessions with your clients to submit for review from a professor or supervisor. For some, this can seem like a daunting task. It certainly was for me at first. As a... Continue Reading →
Anxiety. A dreaded word. Everyone experiences anxiety of various degrees at different points in their life. Where does anxiety come from and what purpose does it serve? Anxiety is a direct result of one’s flight or fight response. The flight or fight response is a physiological reaction in our bodies that occurs in response to... Continue Reading →
Hello 2024! New year, new me! Time to lose ten pounds, stop eating bread, quit smoking, floss daily, start a new workout regime, and get out of debt. Just kidding. Those are all genuine resolutions I have made in the past. My birthday would sneak up on me at the end of November and I... Continue Reading →
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