We don’t realize how much our thoughts affect us emotionally, mentally, behaviorally and physically. The thoughts or narrative we have about ourselves will either propel us in life or limit us from building relationships with self and others. I like to say it’s the story we tell ourselves about ourselves. In technical terms this is... Continue Reading →
Low self-esteem can be a challenging battle, affecting various aspects of our lives. However, one effective way to counteract negative self-perception is by creating a positive self-affirmations jar. In this blog post, we will explore the benefits of using a self-affirmations jar as a tool for boosting self-esteem and regaining confidence. 1. Reinforcing Positivity: A... Continue Reading →
We all know that being a teenager can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster ride, with all the changes happening around us. But fear not, because I'm here to share some tips on how to build your self-esteem and embrace your inner strength. I remember growing up and being afraid to go to my first doctor’s... Continue Reading →
I find myself battling between different people demanding my attention and validation which makes it easy to lose sight of my own worth. We often find ourselves seeking approval from others, neglecting the most important source of validation – ourselves. However, recognizing and valuing our own unique qualities and abilities is crucial for living a... Continue Reading →
I remember growing up and hearing people call me names in school such as “teacher’s pet” or “redhead.” I knew I was a good student and responsible which led me to be chosen by various teachers for assignments, however, the label placed on me was hurtful. I disliked when people saw me in the hallway... Continue Reading →
The idea that you can only love another person until you love yourself is expressed frequently. And while loving yourself is truly valuable, the language used around it is often limiting. The fact of the matter is that self-love is not an easy deed. A person may even wonder, what is self-love? What does it... Continue Reading →
Eating food is an experience most individuals collectively share in each day. For many, eating is part of a routine and something they need to survive. For some, it is an enjoyable part of work, school, or home life. Food can be a source of tradition, comfort, joy, and socialization. However, for many individuals (of... Continue Reading →
Many of us are hyper-focused on what others think. It often dictates how we behave, how we respond, and how we feel. With all this focus on external factors, are you making room for the possibility that people are not judging, critiquing, or thinking about you as much as you think they are? Are you... Continue Reading →
As humans, many of us want to help others. If you are being honest with yourself, it not only makes the other person feel good, but it also probably makes you feel good. Helping and caring for others is completely essential- it brings light and love into the world. However, when someone constantly prioritizes the... Continue Reading →
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