Is there something in your life you’d like to change? Would you like to improve your diet? Reduce your carb intake? Maybe you’ve been promising yourself you’ll start going to the gym, or that you’ll stop scrolling before bedtime so you can get to sleep more easily. Have your friends been telling you that you... Continue Reading →
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey is a timeless must read. Each habit goes in depth into helping individuals reach their potential, gain confidence, live life through their values, develop character and develop life balance while achieving success. Covey did not claim to create the seven habits, instead he believed... Continue Reading →
When family or friends open up, most of us rush to fix, advise, or share a similar story. This can be useful, but what helps most is active listening - giving full, empathic attention so the other person feels genuinely heard. Using active listening also strengthens relationships and, surprisingly, benefits the listener! Below are some... Continue Reading →
Many parents look forward to their children growing up and leaving their home. Although it sounds like a time of freedom and rediscovery, it also comes with many challenges and changes that parents might not be aware of until the time comes. Parents might feel anxious at the thought of their children leaving the house... Continue Reading →
Have you ever heard of Misophonia? Misophonia is a condition where people are disturbed by common, everyday sounds. Many people cringe hearing nails scraping on a blackboard or are annoyed by heavy breathing or lip-smacking, but people with misophonia have a much more profound reaction. They might feel intense anger, anxiety, fear, or disgust when... Continue Reading →
What is compassion? Compassion is the awareness of another person’s suffering with a desire to help. Unlike empathy, which involves understanding and sharing someone’s feelings, compassion also includes the motivation to take action. As Hill (2023) writes "Compassion is like water, it can flow over hard rocks and into tight places and softens them over... Continue Reading →
Mental health is just as important as physical health, but for many minority communities, accessing care can be challenging due to stigma, cultural barriers, and systemic inequalities. This month, we shine a light on the unique struggles faced by Black, Indigenous, People of Color and other underrepresented groups when it comes to mental well-being. Our... Continue Reading →
In 1992 Gary Chapman first published his New York Times #1 bestselling book, The 5 Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Chapman, a longtime marriage counselor, proposed that there are five basic ways, he calls emotional love languages, that people both express love and feel they are loved. Your primary love... Continue Reading →
In a fast-paced life, it is easy to overlook what we are grateful for during our day-to-day life. Recent research shows that practicing gratitude has several benefits to our mental and physical health. But what is gratitude? Gratitude allows us to take a moment and appreciate the things, people, or events that bring us joy. ... Continue Reading →
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